A Dragon In Washington DC

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I’ve been trying to get to Washington DC for a few years now, and every time I tried life has interceded. Finally I’m here. As I’m writing (most of) this blog post, my trip is almost done, having been here about two weeks. First I attended a conference for professional speakers, then I did my own seminars and… Continue Reading →

How To Deal With New Relationship Energy (NRE)

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NRE, or New Relationship Energy, is the strongest positive emotion a human being can feel. Here’s the definition from the glossary: NRE – New Relationship Energy. The temporary, short-lasting, overwhelming feeling of joy one experiences when first dating a new person, usually not lasting longer than several months (though it can be artificially extended out… Continue Reading →

Body vs. Face

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There’s an important aspect of physical attraction I don’t see a lot of discussion about. This is the difference between being physically attracted to a woman’s body versus a woman’s face. I’m only talking about physical attraction here, not emotional or intellectual attraction which is a completely different animal. Let’s get three things straight before… Continue Reading →

How To Date As A Single Dad

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Today we’ll discuss one of the most requested topics I’ve received: how to live the Alpha lifestyle, date, and/or have multiple relationships when you’re a single dad. I don’t like the word “single,” since it’s rarely accurate, so let’s call it Alpha dad instead of single dad. This is an Alpha 1.0 or 2.0 dad… Continue Reading →

Being Unable to Compartmentalize Sex is a Liability

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Today’s article is a direct sequel to an article that I wrote regarding the Relationship Boxes Concept. If you have not yet read it, please take a minute and do so. It will put the rest of this article in context for you. Within the Relationship Boxes Concept, I explained that everyone has a different… Continue Reading →

Proven Dating Technique: How To Use Variance

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Years ago when I was experimenting with various dating techniques, I discovered an interesting dynamic with women which manifested in two different ways. I used to wear a fancy suit (though usually without a tie) for every date I had with a woman. First date, second date, third date, etc. After the second or third date,… Continue Reading →

Relationship Advice and Hypocrisy

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A few days ago, Bristol Palin, daughter of Sarah Palin, and advocate/spokesperson for abstinence, teen pregnancy prevention, and sexual responsibility, announced that she was pregnant, yet again. Once again, it was out of wedlock, and this time with a different baby daddy than before. She was bitchy about it at her blog, saying things like,… Continue Reading →

Women’s Greatest Problem: The Myth of the Submissive Alpha Male

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Today I will describe the number one problem for Western women in the modern era. It’s something I’ve alluded to before but never described in detail. When looking to get a long-term boyfriend or husband, modern day women have only two options: 1. Get a beta male who will obey her and conform to her… Continue Reading →