I’m going to be a contrarian today. For a long time, I’ve discussed the downside of dating women over the age of 33 if your goal is to get to sex as quickly as possible. I’ve expounded on this idea in detail in many other articles on this blog and in my books, but I… Continue Reading →
Subjective Attraction
Recently I had a first date which turned out to be a fascinating experience. I wasn’t going to talk about this yet, but I’m currently running an experiment where I’m going on first/second dates with some over-33 women. It’s a long story and I’ll talk more about it in a few weeks/months when I’m done… Continue Reading →
Benefits of Dating an Older Woman(?)
It appears I’m going to have to create a new phrase. It’s something I see a lot of, yet there is no word/phrase to describe it. I’m going to call it “gender myopia”. I think someone published a book by that title a few years ago, but I don’t care. I’m re-inventing the phrase. Gender… Continue Reading →
When Attitude Destroys Appearance
There were some very interesting comments on the blog post I made a while back about the new insulting age limits at Plenty of Fish. It’s become one of the highest-viewed blog posts here in the last few months. Some very thought-provoking points were brought up that I just had to revisit. Lovergirl said this:… Continue Reading →
The Double Standard Regarding Age Difference In Relationships
I saw this on my Facebook feed the other day. An over-30 woman had it up there and she thought it was great. So did all the over-30 women commenting on it. I wonder what would have happened if I had put up the exact same thing except with the genders reversed. Do you think… Continue Reading →
Sex On The First Date Or The Second Date?
Jack (one of two Jacks who comment here) posed an interesting question in the comments on a recent post: You recommend a 2 date model whereas most PUAs recommend a one date model. Chase Amante, who I read regularly, argues that every date past the 1st diminishes your chances dramatically. But here’s the thing, I’m… Continue Reading →
Sex As We Age
This chart has been flowing around the manosphere lately, graciously created by Razib Khan based on this study. It paints a very sad picture…for men and women both. Why Women Have Less Sex As They Age Of course if you’ve been reading my stuff nothing in this chart should be any surprise. Women under 33 have frequent… Continue Reading →
Online Dating Random Sample – Older Women / Younger Women
I had another “older women good or bad for online seduction” discussion with someone the other day. I decided to show this person empirical evidence of what I was saying. I never read profiles, but just for fun I decided to do two very quick experiments. The first experiment was to click on five randomly-selected profiles of… Continue Reading →
Liberals Have Won Over Conservatives – Good or Bad For Alpha Males?
Disclaimer: I am neither conservative nor liberal. I criticize both heavily. I never, ever vote for either Republicans or Democrats (and frankly, you shouldn’t either). This week Rush Limbaugh, God of All Conservatives™ and Voice of the Republican Party™, announced that the left has officially “beaten” the right. He is correct. The only point I might quibble with him about is that… Continue Reading →
Subjective Perception And Age
One thing I have learned over many years of dealing with people in a myriad of different life situations is that very often, people’s objections to things are purely contextual. That is to say that they object to things purely based on their current (and usually temporary) circumstances rather than on the actual facts and merits of… Continue Reading →